Black and White?
A few days ago I had dinner with some friends of mine.
Somehow the topic switched to the color of our skin and how being lighter is
usually seen as better. Back when slavery officially existed in America, white
men would have sexual relations with black women resulting in a mixed child
known as a mulatto. In an article by Cherrie Moragu titled “La Guera” she explains how being seen as
lighter is better. I don’t really understand this ideal but my guess is the
lighter you are the whiter you are. This idea also leads to the assumption of
the person being more literate and have more status.
Moragu makes a lot of good points that I agree with, such as
her argument that “silence is like starvation”. What I got from this was the
fact that by not speaking up you’re not doing anything and how differences can
make people immobilize. It’s like a knee jerk reaction to shut down when
someone is different. It’s easier more favorable even to find people you relate
too. It’s hard to understand someone else’s view point on an issue. It’s
probably why it’s even harder to change someone’s point of view when they
believe they are right. Change won’t happen in an instant it’ll take time and
pressure. I think most importantly people need to be in situations where they
can be more open-minded so they can learn.
In “Towards a New
Consciousness” Gloria Anzaldua mentions the fact that many people believe
that “their own people should help rid themselves of race hatred and fear”. I
can see both sides to this potential argument. On one hand, it’ll be easier for
the person to accept the beliefs of someone who is more like them than a person
who is not. On the other hand, it would be affective to hear the person tell
their story and humanize themselves. I believe that we need to work together as
a society to overcome many racial and gender beliefs we have that cause
inequality. Having more segregation won’t help.
Tatiana, you make some great points in your post! It is such a shame that people truly believe that being lighter in skin tone is better, solely because it is closer to being white. It both sickens and saddens me that people cannot look beyond someone's skin to see the beauty buried within. Like you said, I also believe that it is time for us to work together and unite as a society. We should start building each other up, not tearing each other down. Also, I like the picture that you included; it truly captured the essence of your argument.
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